What happened to you
doesn't have to be
who you are forever.
Trauma isn't what's wrong with you. It's what happened to you. The ways you learned to survive — the hypervigilance, the shutting down, the patterns that protected you then but are costing you now — those were adaptations. They made sense. And they can change.
The work isn't about endlessly reliving what happened. It's about processing it in a way that shifts its grip — so that the past stops showing up uninvited in your present.